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How To Recognize If You Are In A Abusive Relationship


Domestic Violence is a repeated pattern of behavior used to instill fear and gain power and control over another person.

Take this Quiz to see if you are in an abusive relationship!


  1. I am afraid of my partner.

  2. I cannot express my opinion or my feelings without being afraid of my partner’s reaction.

  3. I always ask my partner for permission to see family or friends, to spend money or buy something for myself.

  4. I constantly manipulate myself, my children and my home in order to make things “just so” for my partner.

  5. I try and try to please my partner only to be criticized again.

  6. I sometimes feel like I am living with two different people, as Dr.Jekell/Mr.Hyde.

  7. I am confused about the difference in the way my partner views our relationship and the way I see it.

  8. I am beginning to believe all the terrible things my partner says about me and accuse me of anymore. Sometimes I’m not sure what is real anymore. Maybe I am going crazy.

If you answered “Yes” to half of the questions, you may be a victim of domestic violence. Get to a safe place and get help!


Psalm 9:9-10

God’s a safe-house for the battered, a sanctuary during bad times. The moment you arrive you relax, you’re never sorry you knocked.

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